My journey to Sweden was a long one, which included a series of trains, planes, and schnellbahns I booked myself. So I was a little nervous about making it there in one piece, but I had already made it half way by getting to Kirchberg. Early Wednesday morning I continued my travels by first taking a 2 hour train to Munich, Germany. From there, I made my way through a maze of construction at the train station and to the schnellbahn that would take me to the airport. Once finally arriving at the Munich airport, I relaxed a little. I went through security easily (they are much more laid back than in the States) and then had a quick coffee before boarding my plane. That’s when it really started to sink in. I think I didn’t want to let myself get too excited at first, but taking off on a plane to Sweden it really hit me that I’d be seeing my best friend in a few hours! Swede (if you don’t know the background story a quick catch up; I hosted a Swedish exchange student last year who ended up being my best friend, and whose name I can’t seem to pronounce, so I just call him Swede) said that he had school and wasn’t able to pick me up at the airport, but that his dad would be there waiting for me. When I landed, I searched the room for Holger’s (Swede’s dad) face, and was delightfully surprised to see Swede’s first! It was definitely a cliché airport scene as I ran to hug a friend I hadn’t seen in almost a year. I also got a big hug from Holger, and I immediately started to realize the differences in Austrian and Swedish culture. Remember how I said I missed getting hugs? Well that’s because it’s not really the Austrian thing, so I made sure I got as many as I could during my stay in Sweden.
It took about an hour to drive to Swede’s house from the airport due to afternoon traffic. But it was the perfect time to catch up and listen to some of Swede’s awful heavy metal music…. Swede’s grandma is from Germany originally, so Holger can speak fluent German. We started to speak German together, and he complimented me on my accent. Woo! It was strange speaking German with him, because he learned a very different accent and was kind of hard to understand sometimes, but entertaining nonetheless!
I got another big hug from Anika (his mother) when we got home, and I finally got to see the house he had been telling me about for a year. That was one of the coolest parts of the whole trip; I had heard so many stories and descriptions of his life, but to actually see it and live it was really great. We had an awesome dinner together where I really got to know his parents. I then had to help Swede study for a math test he had in the morning, and we made plans for the next day. Anika and Holger would be at work, and Swede at his last day of school, so we planned for me to visit Stockholm’s photography museum, and then tour a little bit of the town by myself.
The photography museum was super interesting. The three main exhibits were so different from each other, and really told the story of how photography has evolved. I have a pretty big passion for photography myself, and I always find it amazing to see how every photographer has his/her own theme and style. Definitely inspirational. Following the maps Holger drew for me, and following a pack of tourists, I then toured ‘Old Stockholm’ for the rest of the afternoon. I was actually super glad to do it by myself for a few reasons….
1. You get to know the city better when you have to figure it out for yourself
2. I could take as many pictures and look like a total tourist without embarrassing Swede
3. You usually end up getting semi-lost, but finding the most amazing features on your journey back
All of my expectations were fulfilled and I had a wonderful afternoon. Old Stockholm is full of narrow, winding cobblestone streets and colorful buildings. The city is also situated on the water, so there was the whole fishing feeling involved too. I ended the day in a little café and a Chai tea latte. I think Swede was surprised to see I made it home in one piece. He was impressed to see the naïve girl from town population 2,000 was able to navigate her way around the big city! That night, Swede took me out ‘to see the Swedish nightlife’ which ended up being me and ten other guys sitting in an apartment. I knew it would be that way, and actually had a great night getting to know some of his friends!
The next day we drove to their house on the countryside about 2 hours south of Stockholm. This house has been in Holger’s family since before the Constitution was created, and he actually grew up in that house. It is a farmhouse with a lot of surrounding land where the family spends the majority of the summer. It lays right next to the archipelago, so in the summer they take the boat out every day. There was still quite a bit of snow and ice there (more than normal they said) but the weather was great the entire time we were there. I even got a little tan! Swede’s oldest brother Vilhelm came that evening, and we were instant friends. Vilhelm did an exchange in the Denver area a few years before and so we had a lot to talk about. In general, he is a super caring person who creates great conversations out of genuine interest.
We went to Easter brunch together on Saturday at a very Swedish restaurant. It was an old boathouse that was converted into a small restaurant filled of typical Swedish food. I ate a lot of fish that day, and tried a lot of things I don’t even know the name of. I did however politely decline the offer of moose meat…. Most Swedish meals are followed by a cup of tea, and I really learned to appreciate Swedish tea after this trip.
On Easter Sunday, we started the morning bright and early with an Easter egg hunt. It was a little early for us three adolescents to be searching for brightly died eggs, but we eventually discovered them all and then had a huge breakfast together. Then Swede, Vilhelm and I were set to the task of burning the massive pile of wood that had collected from last summer. It was so fun to see the two ‘city slicker’ boys turn into true farm boys when the thought of starting a giant fire came to mind. It took a little bit of work, but we finally got it burning pretty well and had a celebratory cup of tea as we watched the fire burn. I soaked up every moment of glorious sunshine and enjoyed interesting conversation with the brothers about the difference in Swedish and American politics.
The next day, we drove about an hour to Vilhelm’s college town to help him move apartments. It was a long day of moving boxes and organizing furniture. But it was spent in the best of company and a bonus trip to Ikea. I had never been to an Ikea before and it pretty much blew my mind. That store literally has EVERYTHING; one of Sweden’s proudest creations. As the day came to an end, I had to say goodbye to Vilhelm, knowing that it will be a long time until I see him again.
The last day at the country house I went on a considerably long walk with Anika and the beloved dog, Rocky. Anika and I talked a lot, and it was easy for us to connect talking about her son of course. She is a really great mother and it was so nice to hear her talk about all of her boys. We also talked a lot about exchange and how much it can change things. I really started to reflect on my experiences and how much Rotary Youth Exchange has changed my life, starting from the day I met Swede. Anika was also an exchange student, and she made me realize I definitely want to host exchange students when I’m older!
We drove back to Stockholm the next day all looking a little tanner than when we left. No one could believe the amazing weather we were having, and Holger was convinced that I had brought the sunshine with me. From where I brought it is another question, because the weather in Vienna had been and still was far from sunshine and rainbows. That night, I got to meet Swede’s other brother Gustav. Swede doesn’t get along as well with this brother, and I thought it was funny to finally see his sibling rivalry. Just before Gustav arrived, Swede hid some soda and chocolate in a secret stash. It made me laugh, because I do the same thing when my sister comes home. Gustav turned out to be just as charming as his brothers and we laughed over YouTube videos together the rest of the night. Swede and I watched the Twilight Saga
that night as he owed me a chick flick after all the war movies I’ve watched with him. He was a pretty good sport about it, and didn’t make too much fun of the overly girly movies. But feeling bad, I let him teach me how to play Halo (a video game) on his giant home theater screen.
The next day Anika took Swede and me into the city, where I got a more official tour from the two experts. We also toured the royal castle which was really cool! Sweden is one of the last countries to have a monarchy in place (of course they don’t have the same political power they used to) and it is a huge part of their culture and nationalism. The tour of the castle was in English, but I also heard Spanish, German, and of course, Swedish around me. It was so cool to be able to understand almost everything from so many different languages. It definitely made me feel pretty cultured! We had lunch in a cute little café which was of course followed by coffee, and then we headed back home. Elia, one of Swede’s good friends, and someone I became friends with that one night too, came over and we hung out for the rest of the night.
My last day in Sweden had come more quickly than I would have liked. We went to the castle where the royal family actually lives now (different from the one the day before) and spent the day enjoying each other’s company. Time is a precious gift that is never taken for granted in situations like these. Swede and I always joke about attending each other’s weddings, bringing my future kids to see Uncle Swede, and things in the more near future like our graduations. Although all hypothetical situations, I know Swede will be in my life forever. It is through RYE that I made such a great friend, and so many others like him. I am eternally grateful for that. Saying goodbye at the airport was tough. But I didn’t cry, which is a huge improvement from our last goodbye. Swede pointed out that I’d grown up, and realized that goodbyes don’t always mean the end. In fact, quite often they open up your eyes and make room for new beginnings. All the while holding on to the pieces that have gotten you this far. I left feeling down, but incredibly hopeful and accomplished. Until life brings us together again my friend….
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Stockholm |
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The archipelago |
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Jakob and me |